Cleveland Parental Rights Advocate Ray Lautenschlager Dies and Families Say Justice Lost a Champion

CLEVELAND, OH — Ray R. Lautenschlager, a Cleveland-based family law reform advocate and president of Ohio Family Rights, died at home Feb. 9, according to friends and colleagues. Supporters remembered him as a relentless voice for parental rights and as a man who personally guided families through some of their most difficult custody battles. “There will be a Zoom memorial on Feb. 19 at 8 p.m.,” a co-advocate and friend wrote in announcing his passing. Organizers later scheduled an additional online memorial for Feb. 26 at 8 p.m. Eastern to allow more friends, colleagues and family members to share stories. Lautenschlager served as president and legislative director of Ohio Family Rights, focusing his work on shared parenting reform, constitutional parental rights, custody law reform and criticism of domestic relations court procedures. His advocacy was rooted in his own experience navigating divorce and parenting plan disputes, which led him to file federal civil rights litigation challenging Ohio custody statutes, domestic relations procedures and judicial conduct in his case. Public records show the lawsuit reflected his constitutional objections to family law practices and became a catalyst for his policy work. In written testimony and committee appearances before Ohio legislative bodies, Lautenschlager argued that parental rights are fundamental civil rights and that courts often rely on inadequate evidentiary standards when limiting parental involvement. He promoted equal shared parenting as the default baseline in custody determinations and supported applying a clear and convincing evidence standard before restricting a parent’s time. He also criticized what he described as excessive judicial discretion in domestic relations courts and warned that inconsistent standards increase litigation costs and emotional strain on families. His white papers and reform proposals contended that fit parents are routinely removed from meaningful roles in their children’s lives and that Ohio custody law requires structural reform. He submitted written critiques of proposed statutory language changes that he believed weakened protections for parents. Legislative tracking confirms his participation in hearings involving family and aging committee matters and related custody legislation. Beyond formal testimony, Lautenschlager provided advice to parents across Ohio and in other states, often speaking by phone or online with people he had never met in person. “I wouldn’t have the relationship I have with my daughter if it wasn’t for Ray,” one community member wrote. Another said, “He was such a good man and so giving and helpful.” Many described shock at the news of his death. “I’m in shock and so sorry to hear this,” one resident wrote. Another added, “This is a major loss for all of us.” A longtime acquaintance said, “I have known Ray for about 50 years. I am just in shock about this.” Parents who credited Lautenschlager with guiding them through custody disputes said his impact extended far beyond policy papers. “He helped me through a battle I’m currently going through still,” one father wrote. “I didn’t even know him. I was a stranger, yet that man talked and walked me through so much.” Another community member said, “Although I never met Ray in person, he took the time to help me through some tough family court times. I am heartbroken.” Colleagues in the parental rights movement described years of collaboration. “We’ve been working together for years,” one associate wrote, adding that Lautenschlager “embodied a good friend” and continued making himself available to families in need of empathy even while dealing with his own health issues. Another supporter said, “He dedicated his entire life to injustice for parents, especially fathers.” Throughout his advocacy, Lautenschlager consistently framed parenting as a fundamental liberty interest deserving the highest procedural protections. He maintained that custody litigation is not only a private dispute but a broader social and economic issue affecting families, courts and state resources. Supporters said that commitment defined his life’s work. “He was a leader, someone to look up to, someone to admire,” one community member wrote. “I’ll miss you, my friend.” -------------------- At Cleveland 13 News, we strive to provide accurate, up-to-date, and reliable reporting. If you spot an error, omission, or have information that may need updating, please email us at tips@cleveland13news.com. As a community-driven news network, we appreciate the help of our readers in ensuring the integrity of our reporting.